Then sweetie throw your wedding ring in the trash because it stands for a vow too. Your vows exist with or without the ring but its a lovely reminder of all that it stands for. At the end of the day I wore the ring as reminder of my vow. In the end I didnt wear it anymore just because I didn't feel I needed it anymore. Theres a variety of things we can say is just mere propaganda but how you chose to live your own life has little to do with the initial purpose. The USA chant and a variety of patriotic songs are nothing but mere propaganda of a strong and unbeatable nation but I sing them with pride all the while realizing we're definitely not perfect. I dont think its much to ask to respect people aren't so stupid as to see beyond the mere idea of a "ring" and into its deeper meaning. Or do I seem that stupid too? Because if you're a slut just because Jordan Sparks said it then I guess I'm just an idiot who abides by propaganda.